5 Qualities I required for Love

Looking for a partner? Who is desperately in love? Or desperately wanting Love?
To me, love is a huge thing. Love is not necessarily man to man (What I meant was "humans", don't get me wrong. Because proper sentence structure don't use "humans" unless you are going to mention Aliens in the sentence), but Love applies on all things.
Of course which means that, Love without boundaries.

So, I was kind of inspired by some Facebook posts, Tumblr pictures and blogposts about relationships. So, ask yourself. What do you want in a relationship?

To be frank and cut the crap, I am gay. I am single and available right now. Not in desperation of love. But I am okay with attention (evil smile). Regardless of loving men or women, Chinese, Malay, Indian, White or Mixed. Anyhow, People have expectations. Although I mentioned earlier, Love without Boundaries but! Expectations for Satisfaction is relevant, isn't it? If a person do not have any expectations, I will find a doctor for you!

Again, what do you want for a relationship? I will share mine, and maybe you can share with me yours too. Not to light up the fire, I have to clarify that this is just a self reflective, creative writing and personal interest post. Every point that I said does not equals to perfection because nobody is perfect and I am not a 2 year old kid. So, what I am sharing is just some qualities that I feel a relationship should have. Haters beware, you can stop reading from the next full stop. Love and Peace. No war.
Here it goes...

First thing goes to Appearance
Hmph, inside your heart will be like: "Bah!! Shallow!"
Hello! *waves at you with both arms* Face the reality! Mankind created the word good and bad, positive and negative, pretty and awful, beautiful and ugly. There are always opposite sides in everything, please finish listening to me first.
Appearance doesn't mean that you need to be perfectly charming, but most importantly presentable. Image is very important in creating impressions to people. This is what I learn in Public Relations Class okay! Even in a relationship, if you want to impress somebody that you fond of, of course you will take good care of your image. Don't you agree? Who doesn't like to see pleasant things? A rubbish dump and a colourful garden. Take your pick!
Be presentable, wear something that shouts your personality, neat and clean, looks nice and smells nice. You got the 1st green light! On the other hand, I don't see plastic surgery is a total bad thing. If it will enhance your confidence in impressing people or self development, go for it. It is a positive thing to yourself. Of course, not excessive, balance is compulsory.
Appearance is the first but ONLY this quality?, that's an ultimate turn off. Let's go to the second bullet.

Secondly, Knowledge. I can say that I am full with ego when it comes to knowledge. This does not mean that I have an Einstein brain but at least I act like I know a lot! *Grins* Partly because I am a Mass-Commer. I get information all around from people and search for evidence myself, then spread around to other people. Men with great knowledge is a huge turn-on for me and I will idolize him totally and automatically covered all his flaws. *Angels Singing* (Exaggerating!)
Knowledge is vital, I don't require PHD or Masters in anything but at least, General Knowledge!! I despise people who are ignorant of what is happening around the world and only live in his/her own life, ranting feelings on Facebook, Twitter or being super LOA (Lack of Attention).
Read the news and get updated! Those are not gossips or busybody, but general knowledge is also an impression not only for your partner, your friends, your bosses, your people around you. This also impresses the people around your partner too! If he can discuss politics with my dad, self-enrichment with my mum, books with my sister, gadgets with my brother and everything with me. *rolls on bed* Screamssss!
But there's an exception. Knowledgeable is not bragging. Bragging just makes me feel like puking.
Knowledge is vital, so how do you convey it? That's the other point.

Third, Communication.
Great communication skills is the next "Must-Haves"! Communication matters. How does he communicate every single message to you? I want somebody that knows how to talk and be friends with my close-ones. But not sitting aside and hands on his gadgets. Who knows he is chatting with somebody behind you? *half-squeezed eyes*
Able to hold a great conversation, chooses the right time to talk, using of correct and appropriate words. I admit that I sucked at warm up lines, but I am very good at continuing it! Unless you turn me off at first.
Enough? Unfortunately, No.

Fourth, Maturity.
Are you matured enough to face every difficulties in life? Life is always a challenge. Nobody is having a great time in this world full of sufferings, even you are born with a silver spoon.In religion studies, life is portrayed as suffering, the end of everything is enlightenment. Since we suffer in everyday life, please do not give me more sufferings with your tears or bimbotic complaints.
I don't want a boyfriend, I want a real man! There is a picture I saw which goes like this:" Every Women are seeking for a  Real man but ended up, she found out she outshone every men!"
In the gay circle, there are a lot of people who claims that they are the man in the relationship but ended up they are just like a kid. I have to emphasize again, I am not seeking for perfect, but at least, not childish.  
Strategic Planner? Crisis Solver? Mastermind? Energized Bunny? Which of the characteristics suits you?

Okay Okay. Last but not least. Love.
We don't love someone who does not love you. Showering love for both is a great pamper for both parties in a relationship. You need to show your concerns, attention to me to show that I am placed at a prominent position in your heart. Love me for me. Love me for who I am. Just like I will love you for who you are. If I am able to fall in love with you, you have passed my checklist.
Love also shows commitment. Are you willing to commit in the relationship? That's a big question. Even we do not want to be over positive to see the future, but be committed to the person and show love. When you see couples that clicked, they will have roses blooming around them which you do not need super powers to see it. It flourishes beautifully just in front of you. This is the power of Love.

Till here, what are your views? Rage or Consent?
I might be seen as foolish to analyze all this. But again. This is just a piece of my work and for personal interest. Don't forget, freedom of speech is widely known in the internet, and most importantly, this is my diary.

Toodles. Great night.