5 Qualities I required for Love

Looking for a partner? Who is desperately in love? Or desperately wanting Love?
To me, love is a huge thing. Love is not necessarily man to man (What I meant was "humans", don't get me wrong. Because proper sentence structure don't use "humans" unless you are going to mention Aliens in the sentence), but Love applies on all things.
Of course which means that, Love without boundaries.

So, I was kind of inspired by some Facebook posts, Tumblr pictures and blogposts about relationships. So, ask yourself. What do you want in a relationship?

To be frank and cut the crap, I am gay. I am single and available right now. Not in desperation of love. But I am okay with attention (evil smile). Regardless of loving men or women, Chinese, Malay, Indian, White or Mixed. Anyhow, People have expectations. Although I mentioned earlier, Love without Boundaries but! Expectations for Satisfaction is relevant, isn't it? If a person do not have any expectations, I will find a doctor for you!

Again, what do you want for a relationship? I will share mine, and maybe you can share with me yours too. Not to light up the fire, I have to clarify that this is just a self reflective, creative writing and personal interest post. Every point that I said does not equals to perfection because nobody is perfect and I am not a 2 year old kid. So, what I am sharing is just some qualities that I feel a relationship should have. Haters beware, you can stop reading from the next full stop. Love and Peace. No war.
Here it goes...

First thing goes to Appearance
Hmph, inside your heart will be like: "Bah!! Shallow!"
Hello! *waves at you with both arms* Face the reality! Mankind created the word good and bad, positive and negative, pretty and awful, beautiful and ugly. There are always opposite sides in everything, please finish listening to me first.
Appearance doesn't mean that you need to be perfectly charming, but most importantly presentable. Image is very important in creating impressions to people. This is what I learn in Public Relations Class okay! Even in a relationship, if you want to impress somebody that you fond of, of course you will take good care of your image. Don't you agree? Who doesn't like to see pleasant things? A rubbish dump and a colourful garden. Take your pick!
Be presentable, wear something that shouts your personality, neat and clean, looks nice and smells nice. You got the 1st green light! On the other hand, I don't see plastic surgery is a total bad thing. If it will enhance your confidence in impressing people or self development, go for it. It is a positive thing to yourself. Of course, not excessive, balance is compulsory.
Appearance is the first but ONLY this quality?, that's an ultimate turn off. Let's go to the second bullet.

Secondly, Knowledge. I can say that I am full with ego when it comes to knowledge. This does not mean that I have an Einstein brain but at least I act like I know a lot! *Grins* Partly because I am a Mass-Commer. I get information all around from people and search for evidence myself, then spread around to other people. Men with great knowledge is a huge turn-on for me and I will idolize him totally and automatically covered all his flaws. *Angels Singing* (Exaggerating!)
Knowledge is vital, I don't require PHD or Masters in anything but at least, General Knowledge!! I despise people who are ignorant of what is happening around the world and only live in his/her own life, ranting feelings on Facebook, Twitter or being super LOA (Lack of Attention).
Read the news and get updated! Those are not gossips or busybody, but general knowledge is also an impression not only for your partner, your friends, your bosses, your people around you. This also impresses the people around your partner too! If he can discuss politics with my dad, self-enrichment with my mum, books with my sister, gadgets with my brother and everything with me. *rolls on bed* Screamssss!
But there's an exception. Knowledgeable is not bragging. Bragging just makes me feel like puking.
Knowledge is vital, so how do you convey it? That's the other point.

Third, Communication.
Great communication skills is the next "Must-Haves"! Communication matters. How does he communicate every single message to you? I want somebody that knows how to talk and be friends with my close-ones. But not sitting aside and hands on his gadgets. Who knows he is chatting with somebody behind you? *half-squeezed eyes*
Able to hold a great conversation, chooses the right time to talk, using of correct and appropriate words. I admit that I sucked at warm up lines, but I am very good at continuing it! Unless you turn me off at first.
Enough? Unfortunately, No.

Fourth, Maturity.
Are you matured enough to face every difficulties in life? Life is always a challenge. Nobody is having a great time in this world full of sufferings, even you are born with a silver spoon.In religion studies, life is portrayed as suffering, the end of everything is enlightenment. Since we suffer in everyday life, please do not give me more sufferings with your tears or bimbotic complaints.
I don't want a boyfriend, I want a real man! There is a picture I saw which goes like this:" Every Women are seeking for a  Real man but ended up, she found out she outshone every men!"
In the gay circle, there are a lot of people who claims that they are the man in the relationship but ended up they are just like a kid. I have to emphasize again, I am not seeking for perfect, but at least, not childish.  
Strategic Planner? Crisis Solver? Mastermind? Energized Bunny? Which of the characteristics suits you?

Okay Okay. Last but not least. Love.
We don't love someone who does not love you. Showering love for both is a great pamper for both parties in a relationship. You need to show your concerns, attention to me to show that I am placed at a prominent position in your heart. Love me for me. Love me for who I am. Just like I will love you for who you are. If I am able to fall in love with you, you have passed my checklist.
Love also shows commitment. Are you willing to commit in the relationship? That's a big question. Even we do not want to be over positive to see the future, but be committed to the person and show love. When you see couples that clicked, they will have roses blooming around them which you do not need super powers to see it. It flourishes beautifully just in front of you. This is the power of Love.

Till here, what are your views? Rage or Consent?
I might be seen as foolish to analyze all this. But again. This is just a piece of my work and for personal interest. Don't forget, freedom of speech is widely known in the internet, and most importantly, this is my diary.

Toodles. Great night.

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Dear diary. Just gotta post a random post before sleep. V
Very randomly, I just thought of blogging. So I blogged. Right now.

Updates for now:
Nothing special. Just continue working and working.
Work has shown better results. Very positively and I am still trying my very best to maintain it.
Never thought that things went smoothly and Im impressed by myself too.
Envious of people who buys clothes without any second thought.
Sales is starting on 25/10/2012. Please drop by my store and say hi!
Im still a shopaholic. Cravings are everywhere! Spending money just makes me happy easily!
Like a snap!
So obviously, I gotta earn more.
Mum recommended me a business and I am still reluctant to pursue. How?
I do not know how to start, I do not even want to start.
Negative thoughts are still refraining the positive vibes to come in.
So, what's stopping me? I really don't know.
American dreams next year, I just set this target 24 hours ago by the way.
A lot of places that I still have not visit and wanna visit, especially countries in Asia.

Getting older and crankier. Seems like what happens around is not going my way. (SHIT!)
Thinking that people that are not productive but living in this world, are hopeless. Seriously!
You are wasting the earth's space and time. Go away!
Teenagers nowadays are hopeless too! Please understand your direction, Live it and Be it!
I pray to everything in the enlightened world, please bless my brother's body and soul to be a successful person on everything that he does.
 
No appetite for dinners but keep on eating during lunch
Coffee is my current addiction right now. Its a Viagra for work.
Ice Cream is a de-stress treat.
Snacks are things to fill my stomach during this hour (Which almost applies to everyday, Hahaha!)

Gosh, I feel so old! ROFL...
I don't wanna be some old uncle babbling about things to strangers in the middle of the streets!
SCREAMS!!!!
I need love!

Ohya! Most importantly, Single and available.
Getting more and more ego. Egoism is covered every single part of me.
I hate myself for being like that, but I can't stop it. This is me.
When the walls are up, you gotta try very hard to smash them down.
I don't even know how to do it but my ex did it very well.
Or maybe my walls weren't that stable enough back then. Who knows?
Anyway, Grade A goods are always too pricy to get. All voice down to expectations!
Im always the only frozen rose in the iceberg. (Ewwww!)
Actually I am also very tired of it.

Working overseas is still on my To-Achieive List.
So. 2013? 2014? Shall I proceed? I will be 26 years old! WOW! *flips table*

Again. Another reflective post for the hundred time!
I vomited everytime when I scroll through all my posts again.
Because there are a lot of repetitive (= annoying) text.
For being narcissistic, actually my writing skills improved somehow!

That's all.

K Thanks Bye!

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怎么部落格变了这么多啊？
相隔千日，又时惭悔的时候了。哈哈！